Out-of-Town Guests

Originally, my fiance and I said we'd get married next August. Plenty of time to plan. Stress-free time for me.

But then he decided that not only did he not want to wait so long, but that he also wanted to move across the country.

Because I'm a teacher, I can only move in the summer. Because the housing market changes so much, we should move next summer.

So we want to move the wedding up.

It seemed simple until I started talking to the important people in my life.

My father and stepmom, my closest sister, my mother, my favorite uncle, my daughter and her family, and my fiance's brother all have to do a significant amount of traveling to come to our wedding.

We're planning to have his brother and my sister be our only attendants. It's pretty important that they be able to make the wedding. It's also pretty important to have my parents there. Luckily, my daughter's family said their schedule is open. I am worried about everyone else though.

Plus, it may be harder to book stuff for earlier in the year so we kind of need to be able to be flexible.

I'm a bit stressed about it all and really wish I had some family here to help out with all this stuff.